tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post6834036561014680153..comments2023-09-18T12:21:40.447+01:00Comments on Life After Dubai: A Very Busy Few MonthsLouisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02658992274603414601noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post-21305586328734282042012-07-15T01:26:25.621+01:002012-07-15T01:26:25.621+01:00May Allah give you the support and the strength yo...May Allah give you the support and the strength you need. GID is a serious Issue. I personally suffer from it ( But in my head I'm ok Allah had a massage to deliver to people by me which I still didn't know what is it). I'm 31 years old, female from the out side male from the inside (brain). I tried to kill myself twice when I hit puberty and one year after. tried to live as the people see me outside home and somehow me at home and I didn't even knew what i'm suffering from. all I did is knowing the killing myself is "haram" i tried not to do that but i was praying to Allah to have cancer in the parts that I identified as a girl. I forced myself to get married and I got a molar pregnancy( which is not a real pregnancy and happen to 1 of every million. its very rare, which related to my hormones and I personally believe it is because of the way my brain works). I got divorce and hate the whole situation of forcing myself to be accepted by everyone and i forget my own acceptance. sorry if I make it to long but I hope I could help you deal with the problem. when I got 30 I decided that I have to find a way to solve this issue and I prayed to Allah and he guided me and put signs in my road even if i haven't solve it completely at least i took some of the weight on my shoulders. All I want to said is try not to push your daughter to hate herself and accept the way she is express herself be by her side and wait until she could stand by herself and be stronger than now because she is a child then you'll know that you took away years of sadness pressure and misery. the second thing you should know how to teach her that Allah didn't found her in the wrong body but the is a massage and we know that Allah could made her a boy the same as he made intersex and normal people but because she is strong and not like other she is special. and this is for you to be stronger in islam their is a solution for intersex people but not a clear own for GID people which is the boy or the girl who are intersex should wait until the grow up and see to what side they feel closer so they change their sex based on what they feel. on our prophet Mohamed (peace be upon him) there were men who feel like women and they used to be female community and female should not be covered because of them however they were treated like females however, a man who were one of them was ordered to leave the female community and be with the males because he was telling men how female look like which show the way his brain works and her is not a female inside. if your husband community is a muslim community i know it is to hard but their is a lack of knowledge among them which i personally experienced but you and your husband should make the family aware and the rest will happened eventually. there are special cases were "Imam or mufty " allowed the transition for many because in the future they cant be in female communities and vis versa. I'm sorry again for taking so long but I wanted you to know that its not going to change if she is in the same case as i am. it may get worse. but I hope that my experience could help even little. Peace!Abdullrahman.Azhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04263366172125615829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post-23394788681299153462012-03-07T16:51:39.228+00:002012-03-07T16:51:39.228+00:00sending u lots of positive energy and duas...sending u lots of positive energy and duas...dust n roseshttp://www.dustnroses.comnoreply@blogger.com