tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post3249918918433513488..comments2023-09-18T12:21:40.447+01:00Comments on Life After Dubai: Counselling For ImaneLouisehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02658992274603414601noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post-77722839721064929122010-07-23T23:39:58.653+01:002010-07-23T23:39:58.653+01:00Hi! I am studying Psychology though I am not yet a...Hi! I am studying Psychology though I am not yet a professional Psychologist. My suggestion is for you to also seek out a therapist with a different orientation. <br /><br />Based on your post, I guess your therapist's orientation is psychoanalytic. I am not saying stop going to your current therapist, just try other forms of therapy like Play Therapy or Behavior Therapy because some people respond better to other forms of therapy. These have been mentioned to be suitable for children. <br /><br />I hope everything will become better for your child soon inshallah.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post-56923414957630885402010-07-06T22:13:51.197+01:002010-07-06T22:13:51.197+01:00Aaaaaw mashaAllah beautiful lil imane, may Allah m...Aaaaaw mashaAllah beautiful lil imane, may Allah make it easy for you and her, just keep praying InshaAllah everything will be fine.<br /><br />*After hardship comes ease*<br /><br />YasiraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post-39655218902900621622010-03-10T03:18:37.161+00:002010-03-10T03:18:37.161+00:00I'm sorry you're going through this. I can...I'm sorry you're going through this. I can promise you that it may be just a phase or perhaps attention she's seeking. You haven't lost your little girl.Gypsyheartyasihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06047628943985742582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post-36712408483386295872010-03-10T03:16:37.886+00:002010-03-10T03:16:37.886+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Gypsyheartyasihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06047628943985742582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post-51308431178781146442010-02-26T13:57:38.501+00:002010-02-26T13:57:38.501+00:00As Salaam Alaikum, I am very sorry to hear about y...As Salaam Alaikum, I am very sorry to hear about your daughter and the problems you are facing with her.<br /><br />I too have been having behaviourial issues with my daughter due to divorce and her not understanding the situation. <br /><br />InshaAllah it will get better with lots of love and understanding and sabr from you and those around you.<br /><br />I will make duah for you and your daughter InshaAllah.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12489454940027677414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post-61060929451455841612010-02-23T05:06:16.463+00:002010-02-23T05:06:16.463+00:00As Salaam Alaikum, I came to your blog via Twizzl...As Salaam Alaikum, I came to your blog via Twizzle's.<br /><br />I will keep you and your daughter in my duas.<br /><br />Things will get better, InshaAllah.MaryAnnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16335223415626486844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3773137946275257856.post-35589393766583651532010-02-15T23:29:47.136+00:002010-02-15T23:29:47.136+00:00as-salaam aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,
...as-salaam aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh,<br /><br /> awwwww your lil' Imanes is sooooo adorable Mashallah!! I love that picture!!<br /><br /> I am so sorry for all you are going through with her... it is most difficult especially because children often don't know exactly why they are behaving the way they do in reaction to something that has happened to them.<br /><br /> Was she having lots of problems even before the last visit with her biological father? If a lot of it started afterwards.. I wonder if she in some way feels you did not protect her from her father... and so feels angry about it? I am in no way trying to blame you--I am just wondering how she might view and process the situation that happened... and obviously she doesn't have the behavior problems around her step-dad nor does she have the eating problems outside of the home... <br /><br /> That is verrrry interesting about the therapist believing that major stress can transfer to a baby in the womb... I never ever even thought of that!! I will try to read up about this online later on inshallah.<br /><br /> Have you had any more sessions with the therapist? Have you discussed having her draw? many times a lot can be revealed in the drawings of children. I dont' know it from experience... just reading or seeing information about it online and on tv.<br /><br /> About her anger when you try to speak Arabic and telling her she is a Muslim... would she have the same kind of reaction if it was your husband trying to speak Arabic to her? <br /><br /> that is cute she mistakenly associates Muslims as vegetarians... LOL just sad that she feels such a hatred at the thought of Arabic and Muslims... :(<br /><br /> Inshallah you will be able to find out what is the source of all of this behavior and be able to work through it with her and that she can lose this anger.<br /><br /> May Allah help you with strength and patience and that you find the right resources to help you and Imanes through this.Twizzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04178643462609175719noreply@blogger.com